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How to slay a Dragon in Five easy steps

What are dragons but metaphorical challenges.  They are either encountered in the pursuit of a goal as part of the journey in a personal quest or, they come to your village uninvited …think Godzilla coming to destroy the city full of unprepared and unsuspecting citizens.

There is a definite difference between the two experiences – that being degree of conscious choice. One sets forth in motion towards a goal within our own agenda or time table versus the other being reactive to someone else’s agenda be it fate or simply life.

This “how to manual” is directed more towards slaying these dragons in the pursuit of goals and objectives, towards a quest or journey, towards an active pursuit of a better state or future. These instructions become part of a life lived in conscious choice of one’s agenda – be that of a better job, a salary increase, a promotion, losing weight, writing a book or whatever your pursuit may be.   If you want to succeed at anything, please note dragons are par for the course.

Not an “if”, but “when” you encounter your dragon(s) please consider adopting my personal tried, true and tested technique:


1. Have a “Why, Must or Compelling” reason. In a purpose driven life, everything you do must have a reason. Otherwise, you will find yourself wondering aimlessly through life and will become nothing but quick prey to someone else’s quest or agenda. The clearer the “why” the easier to know what you are willing to do, what you are willing to risk and what the expected outcome is. This will also help you understand which dragons are worth the fight and which aren’t.


2. Armour yourself. Be Prepared. “Suiting up” with your armour serves two goals. First, there is the mental ritual of getting ready, from gladiators to hockey players, to suit and ties. Secondly, by always making suiting up a conscious exercise, a ritual, a call to battle you psychologically prepare to take command of situations.

3. Your weapons are your skills. And just like weapons, they need to be sharp, up to date and relevant for the battle at hand. The phrase “Don’t bring a knife to a gun fight” comes to mind. Educate yourself on the challenge at hand. The more you know about your particular dragons the better and more effective you will be at outsmarting them and realising what your best strategy of attack is.


4. Courage & Self-confidence. I recently discovered the etymology (history) of the word courage. It comes to us from the Latin “Cor” or heart which becomes the old French “Corage” to the current “Courage”. “From the heart” remains a common metaphor for inner strength. To act with courage is to act from the heart. It is a “must” not a should, could or a wouldn’t it be nice. Courage is a “must” when the alternative is death or annihilation, hurt, failure, etc. Sometimes courage will mean to stay and fight and sometimes courage will mean to walk away …as long as the decision is made from a place of power not fear and from a place of strength and not weakness.


5. Willing to die, bleed or get just plain bruised. Willingness to risk injury or failure in battle. Willingness to face criticism or potential sabotage. Willingness to get dirty. You cannot “fly” with your feet nailed to the earth. Failure or setbacks are par for the course. It is what we do with them, the learning we derive from them, the never losing sight of the ultimate goal, the constant remembering of the reason why the difference between failure and a lesson well learned is, most importantly, good to know. These are some of the reasons you will get back up each and every time and be relentless in your pursuit, whatever the outcome.


There is a quote I have always liked that says “Nothing ever gets done, changed or accomplished, unless there is a maniacal person who would not give up, no matter what”.

Carolina Billings

Carolina Billings

Carolina M. Billings is an executive with 15+ year’s leadership experience in the fields of Business Development, Human Resources and Finance. As CFO-CHRO of a multi-million business conglomerate, she performs a truly interdisciplinary role within a portfolio of diverse industries ranging from Supply Chain, Logistics & Distribution, Wealth Management, Furniture Import, Sales & Distribution as well as Interior Design. She champions leadership initiatives as well as empowering and coaching/mentoring others to lead. Developing a hybrid of Finance and Human Resources has enable her to become leading business partner. Her great ability to influence and engage others in the pursuit of goals and objectives makes her a true innovator and change agent. Carolina is currently pursuing her Masters in Interdisciplinary studies with Royal Roads University, She holds Graduate Certificates from Cornell University and Queen’s University in the fields of Change Management and Leadership. She is a Co-Active Professional coach currently doing her practicum towards Certification with ICF. She holds a CHRL designation and a High Honor’s HRM Graduate Certificate. Carolina is the founder of Big Fish Coaching a private practice specializing in personal leadership, career coaching, conflict resolutions and life change management.
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